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I don’t think I’ve ever fallen for a guy who gave me the upfront “don’t fall for me” warning. I have fallen for guys who SHOULD HAVE given that warning b/c they were in that place. If I hear a man say, “Well I’m not really looking for a rela–” I’m asking for the check before dessert hits the table. I’m OUTTIE. As a woman I know we always see the good or potential in a man, especially if he’s doing everything so right… but as my friends say… “Your ovaries are not fresh forever.” LOL. I don’t have time to be out here being nobody’s heart handyman. So my propensity to fall for a man who is incapable of loving is thwarted by my belief that ‘if someone shows/tells you who they are…’ you should believe them. So if he is not moving in the same direction as me and as given me no ETA as to when he’ll arrive in destination: loving relationship… and that’s what I’m looking for, then I gotta be out. No ifs ands or buts about it. I feel so good making that statement b/c I’ve done it a few times recently. Knowing I’ve avoided unnecessary heartache/stife is the best part… I’m not still wondering “if” about our future. There wasn’t one. Sometimes I think it baffles the man how fast I’ve moved along… and you know why? Because they are used to us sticking around anyways… DONT BE THAT GIRL.
Futhermore, fellas… don’t be a douche. You know there is a CLEAR point when you are doing the absolute MOST and she is falling hard. Be that “good guy” you claim to be and take 2 steps back or give her a gentle reminder of your state. Don’t claim to be the good guy one way and then ignore the responsibilities or actions the other way.
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starita34 says:
August 29, 2011 at 12:30 pm
Politically Divided Dating
Dating Tips For Shy People
Relationship Advice: Toxic Friendships
Tips for Coping With Relationships, Breakups, and Life Transitions
Single And Sexy On Valentine's Day
Dating An Older, Married Woman
The Cheater Checklist - Be Aware of Warning Signs That One of You Is Going to Stray
Success Secrets That Women Can Learn From Men
Tips for Dealing with Jealousy...Especially on Your Wedding Day
Recognize an Unhealthy Relationship and How to Cope with Abuse
I don’t think I’ve ever fallen for a guy who gave me the upfront “don’t fall for me” warning. I have fallen for guys who SHOULD HAVE given that warning b/c they were in that place. If I hear a man say, “Well I’m not really looking for a rela–” I’m asking for the check before dessert hits the table. I’m OUTTIE. As a woman I know we always see the good or potential in a man, especially if he’s doing everything so right… but as my friends say… “Your ovaries are not fresh forever.” LOL. I don’t have time to be out here being nobody’s heart handyman. So my propensity to fall for a man who is incapable of loving is thwarted by my belief that ‘if someone shows/tells you who they are…’ you should believe them. So if he is not moving in the same direction as me and as given me no ETA as to when he’ll arrive in destination: loving relationship… and that’s what I’m looking for, then I gotta be out. No ifs ands or buts about it. I feel so good making that statement b/c I’ve done it a few times recently. Knowing I’ve avoided unnecessary heartache/stife is the best part… I’m not still wondering “if” about our future. There wasn’t one. Sometimes I think it baffles the man how fast I’ve moved along… and you know why? Because they are used to us sticking around anyways… DONT BE THAT GIRL.
Futhermore, fellas… don’t be a douche. You know there is a CLEAR point when you are doing the absolute MOST and she is falling hard. Be that “good guy” you claim to be and take 2 steps back or give her a gentle reminder of your state. Don’t claim to be the good guy one way and then ignore the responsibilities or actions the other way.
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starita34 says:
August 29, 2011 at 12:30 pm