Would You Date a Smarter, Richer Woman?
Craig’s List and the Missed Connections
Good Evening from Craig’s List
Curvy and Intellectual
Awaking from a “Feelings” Hibernation
Rock Your First Date
Dating 101 – Surviving the Jungle
The 15 Minute Date
6:45pm, I texted, “And you couldn’t have let me know so I wasn’t waiting for you for 1/2 hour?!? Don’t contact me again.”
My Thoughts: I got stood-up! That was one of the most inconsiderate things I’ve ever had happened. There are so many ways he could have gotten in touch with me before I was waiting for him for 1/2 hour! Even thinking that he possibly had another woman over… then go to the bathroom and text me! Also, if you blow someone off like that, I think it’s worthy of a phone call apology, or at least a more emphatic text “I’m really sorry… I lost track of time, I don’t know what I was thinking, can I make it up to you?…”
My Response: That’s it. Don’t contact me again. He texted and emailed me a couple more times, all just to say “hi” and no apology. Even as most recently as last week. So, that’s it! Your loss.
I was so focused on getting that flag that I lowered my standards to a near all time low. No matter how badly you want to add a new notch or flag, you’ve gotta maintain your dignity and smashing a fatty would have been more like a negative notch.
Lesson learned.
Craig’s List and the Missed Connections
Good Evening from Craig’s List
Curvy and Intellectual
Awaking from a “Feelings” Hibernation
Rock Your First Date
Dating 101 – Surviving the Jungle
The 15 Minute Date
6:45pm, I texted, “And you couldn’t have let me know so I wasn’t waiting for you for 1/2 hour?!? Don’t contact me again.”
My Thoughts: I got stood-up! That was one of the most inconsiderate things I’ve ever had happened. There are so many ways he could have gotten in touch with me before I was waiting for him for 1/2 hour! Even thinking that he possibly had another woman over… then go to the bathroom and text me! Also, if you blow someone off like that, I think it’s worthy of a phone call apology, or at least a more emphatic text “I’m really sorry… I lost track of time, I don’t know what I was thinking, can I make it up to you?…”
My Response: That’s it. Don’t contact me again. He texted and emailed me a couple more times, all just to say “hi” and no apology. Even as most recently as last week. So, that’s it! Your loss.
I was so focused on getting that flag that I lowered my standards to a near all time low. No matter how badly you want to add a new notch or flag, you’ve gotta maintain your dignity and smashing a fatty would have been more like a negative notch.
Lesson learned.