Don’t Look Down
Dating (My Ex-Husband) After Divorce
Post-divorce life is turning out to be very interesting
To Avoid a Broken Heart, Do Not Love
My Last Days as Someone’s Wife
On Taking the Easy Way Out
When Your Soon-to-Be Ex Is Your Soul Mate
Scorched Earth
First Rule of a Positive Divorce
5 Things That Changed My Divorce
If You Love Someone, Set Them Free. And Other Lies
The Last Divorce Writer Rides Again
May Divorce Be With You
Next Time You See Me, I’ll Be Laughing at Divorce
Even Though We're Divorcing, I Want You to Be Happy (And Other B.S. Tales)
You're probably a Thrill of the Hunt guy:
http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php?2541-Thrill-of-the-Hunt-men-vs-Pleasure-of-Sex-men
I'm the same way. I'll pass up an easy lay with an average girl to get shot down by a hotter girl. I'd rather go months without getting laid and then bang a 9-10 than get laid by 5s every night. This is part of why I tend to focus on fuckbuddy relationships…when I bang a girl, she's hot, fun, good in bed etc. because I've screened out and passed up the girls who weren't, so of course I want to keep her around as an ongoing lay.
If I fuck an average/shitty chick, I'll bust a nut and then be like "ughhh I regret this entirely" and be looking at the clock hoping she leaves soon and then go "ahh shit" when she txts me wanting to hook up again the next week lol Whereas my high sex drive Pleasure of Sex Natural buddy will bang her every night of the week and brag about getting laid all the time because he just loves sex, doesn't matter what she looks like (within reason, although some drunk nights…….lol).
"“at first, people are going to hate on you for trying to improve yourself. But that’s good, because now it means you’re on their radar, and the reason you’re on your radar is because you -could- possibly surpass them or become cooler than them in some way. Even your best friends don’t tend to like this very much. So, expect lots of shit talking about game, and contradictory bullshit about what’s ‘organic’ and what’s ‘artificial.’ Then, people are going to grudgingly accept your success — maybe they’ll just attribute it to luck or whatever. But eventually, if you keep on with it, they’ll ask you for tips and accept it.’"
This is DEAD-ON. That guy is speaking from experience. I went through the exact same thing. Crabs in a bucket and all that. I got hate on like crazy from some friends who wouldn't accept that I was breaking out of the social role they felt I should stay in…but eventually the strongest frame wins and they came to accept that this is who I am now.
Dating (My Ex-Husband) After Divorce
Post-divorce life is turning out to be very interesting
To Avoid a Broken Heart, Do Not Love
My Last Days as Someone’s Wife
On Taking the Easy Way Out
When Your Soon-to-Be Ex Is Your Soul Mate
Scorched Earth
First Rule of a Positive Divorce
5 Things That Changed My Divorce
If You Love Someone, Set Them Free. And Other Lies
The Last Divorce Writer Rides Again
May Divorce Be With You
Next Time You See Me, I’ll Be Laughing at Divorce
Even Though We're Divorcing, I Want You to Be Happy (And Other B.S. Tales)
You're probably a Thrill of the Hunt guy:
http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php?2541-Thrill-of-the-Hunt-men-vs-Pleasure-of-Sex-men
I'm the same way. I'll pass up an easy lay with an average girl to get shot down by a hotter girl. I'd rather go months without getting laid and then bang a 9-10 than get laid by 5s every night. This is part of why I tend to focus on fuckbuddy relationships…when I bang a girl, she's hot, fun, good in bed etc. because I've screened out and passed up the girls who weren't, so of course I want to keep her around as an ongoing lay.
If I fuck an average/shitty chick, I'll bust a nut and then be like "ughhh I regret this entirely" and be looking at the clock hoping she leaves soon and then go "ahh shit" when she txts me wanting to hook up again the next week lol Whereas my high sex drive Pleasure of Sex Natural buddy will bang her every night of the week and brag about getting laid all the time because he just loves sex, doesn't matter what she looks like (within reason, although some drunk nights…….lol).
"“at first, people are going to hate on you for trying to improve yourself. But that’s good, because now it means you’re on their radar, and the reason you’re on your radar is because you -could- possibly surpass them or become cooler than them in some way. Even your best friends don’t tend to like this very much. So, expect lots of shit talking about game, and contradictory bullshit about what’s ‘organic’ and what’s ‘artificial.’ Then, people are going to grudgingly accept your success — maybe they’ll just attribute it to luck or whatever. But eventually, if you keep on with it, they’ll ask you for tips and accept it.’"
This is DEAD-ON. That guy is speaking from experience. I went through the exact same thing. Crabs in a bucket and all that. I got hate on like crazy from some friends who wouldn't accept that I was breaking out of the social role they felt I should stay in…but eventually the strongest frame wins and they came to accept that this is who I am now.