Online Dating For Beginners
“elationships”
Instamacy
How To Read An Online Dating Profile
Online Dating No No’s
Keep Your Friends, Your Sanity AND Your Dating Life
Power Struggles
Catch Him and Keep Him (for the girls)
Marriage Is a Two-Way Street: How My Husband and I Help Each Other "Have It All"
How Resentment Can Lead to a Relationship's Demise
Can You (or Your Relationship) Handle Any More Cold Days?
5 Things to Consider Before Reconnecting with an Ex
Guys worry about a lot of stuff. Trust me on that! =)
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I’m kind of happy to see a story where the woman doesn’t call instead of the man. It’s nice to know guys worry about stuff like this too!
The biggest block to getting what you want is to stop learning and growing.
A phrase often said by people who take a class or read a self-help book is “I know that already.” I used to say it all the time, too, and it was the one phrase that kept me stuck. After doing tons of personal development, I heard the same thing repeated by different teachers and would get anxious and hungry for fresh teachings. What I realized is that my frustration was really not about the information, but my own battle with the resistance to change.
You see, when you say I know that already and you don’t have the results you want, you are coming from a false state of arrogance. It isn’t your fault; your mind chatter is actually trying to distract you from making a true transformation in your life. Instead of digging deeper into a teaching, it wants you to skip over it and move on to something else as if you are putting a check mark down a list of things you know.
Think about it this way. We receive a lot of information consciously, but if we don’t integrate it on the subconscious level nothing will change. We just get more frustrated because we “know that already” and feel like we are not meant to have what we want or that we are beyond help. In order to change you need to move the information from your head to your heart.
The resistance inside of you will use everything in its power to stop you from growing. It will make personal growth painful so you don’t want to do it and then beat you up when you don’t see immediate results. You then get to the point where you just give up. The sole purpose of resistance is to stop you from growing and, if you listen to it, it will win and you will stay stuck.
This part of you that wants the status quo will blame others and the external world to keep you from looking within for the answers. If you can see this excuse for what it is, you can quickly dismiss it and prevent the chatter from keeping you in neutral.
“elationships”
Instamacy
How To Read An Online Dating Profile
Online Dating No No’s
Keep Your Friends, Your Sanity AND Your Dating Life
Power Struggles
Catch Him and Keep Him (for the girls)
Marriage Is a Two-Way Street: How My Husband and I Help Each Other "Have It All"
How Resentment Can Lead to a Relationship's Demise
Can You (or Your Relationship) Handle Any More Cold Days?
5 Things to Consider Before Reconnecting with an Ex
Guys worry about a lot of stuff. Trust me on that! =)
Reply
- Molly Ren says:
I’m kind of happy to see a story where the woman doesn’t call instead of the man. It’s nice to know guys worry about stuff like this too!
The biggest block to getting what you want is to stop learning and growing.
A phrase often said by people who take a class or read a self-help book is “I know that already.” I used to say it all the time, too, and it was the one phrase that kept me stuck. After doing tons of personal development, I heard the same thing repeated by different teachers and would get anxious and hungry for fresh teachings. What I realized is that my frustration was really not about the information, but my own battle with the resistance to change.
You see, when you say I know that already and you don’t have the results you want, you are coming from a false state of arrogance. It isn’t your fault; your mind chatter is actually trying to distract you from making a true transformation in your life. Instead of digging deeper into a teaching, it wants you to skip over it and move on to something else as if you are putting a check mark down a list of things you know.
Think about it this way. We receive a lot of information consciously, but if we don’t integrate it on the subconscious level nothing will change. We just get more frustrated because we “know that already” and feel like we are not meant to have what we want or that we are beyond help. In order to change you need to move the information from your head to your heart.
The resistance inside of you will use everything in its power to stop you from growing. It will make personal growth painful so you don’t want to do it and then beat you up when you don’t see immediate results. You then get to the point where you just give up. The sole purpose of resistance is to stop you from growing and, if you listen to it, it will win and you will stay stuck.
This part of you that wants the status quo will blame others and the external world to keep you from looking within for the answers. If you can see this excuse for what it is, you can quickly dismiss it and prevent the chatter from keeping you in neutral.