Christmas Bonding Between Husbands & Wives
It’s Better To Give
Dealing with a jealous love partner
Don’t ruin your marriage by keeping secrets
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on April 24, 2011 at 12:23 pmVasaphonia
Oh come on Susan. There is a serious dissonance here that you haven’t addressed. If having sex without monogamy is a recipe for heartbreak — something you regularly attest to ((and something I agree with and something your blog influenced me to beleive)). Then why would you encourage a guy for facilitating this? It makes no sense.
on April 24, 2011 at 4:20 pmSusan Walsh
@Vasaphonia
I did address your concern in several comments above, but I’ll try again.
There is no way I can ever prevent all women from being promiscuous. This woman appears to have her eyes wide open, Riv hasn’t lied to her in any way. Do I think there’s the potential for her to get hurt? Yes. Perhaps then she will learn a lesson – when you put your hands into the fire you get burned.
Or perhaps she is one of the rare women (probably high testosterone) who can have sex without becoming attached. She describes herself as an asshole magnet, and she’s had this experience several times before.
In any case, that is her responsibility, not Riv’s. He is engaging in consensual sex with a woman who is very eager. It is simply not fair to men to expect them to turn away from no-strings sex when it’s being offered up on a platter in return for NOTHING. It’s the proverbial free lunch.
It’s Better To Give
Dealing with a jealous love partner
Don’t ruin your marriage by keeping secrets
He LOVES me?
How does obsession and control mar your relationship?
How to Make a Healthy Relationship?
How to Ask Someone Out for Date?
on April 24, 2011 at 12:23 pmVasaphonia
Oh come on Susan. There is a serious dissonance here that you haven’t addressed. If having sex without monogamy is a recipe for heartbreak — something you regularly attest to ((and something I agree with and something your blog influenced me to beleive)). Then why would you encourage a guy for facilitating this? It makes no sense.
on April 24, 2011 at 4:20 pmSusan Walsh
@Vasaphonia
I did address your concern in several comments above, but I’ll try again.
There is no way I can ever prevent all women from being promiscuous. This woman appears to have her eyes wide open, Riv hasn’t lied to her in any way. Do I think there’s the potential for her to get hurt? Yes. Perhaps then she will learn a lesson – when you put your hands into the fire you get burned.
Or perhaps she is one of the rare women (probably high testosterone) who can have sex without becoming attached. She describes herself as an asshole magnet, and she’s had this experience several times before.
In any case, that is her responsibility, not Riv’s. He is engaging in consensual sex with a woman who is very eager. It is simply not fair to men to expect them to turn away from no-strings sex when it’s being offered up on a platter in return for NOTHING. It’s the proverbial free lunch.