The Easiest Thing (You’re Not Doing) To Make Your Girl Happy
Don’t Call Me Baby
What You Won’t Do for Love
When the Shoe Drops
I Don’t Love You Anymore
He Never Says I’m Pretty
The Benevolent Dictator
Mixing Friends and Lovers
OK, so maybe she cant fully support herself, she relies on her parents to pay her rent or equivalent. I think Paul hit the nail on the head that perhaps due to her profession, this is as good as it’ll ever get. But here’s the thing – she can get by at some level right now, largely due to her parents. I imagine this would continue for the foreseeable future. So what’s your concern? Surely you dont want to leech off her, so I dont think thats it. Are you worried about her ability to contribute financially should you two get married? Right now, you are both paying utilities and expenses. You are also paying for your place. If you two get married or move in together, you will still pay for your place, or if you have to upgrade, you will. However, you will only pay for one set of utilities, and although those might be a little more than you are paying now, I would imagine that what you save over what you are both paying for utilities combined would help quite a bit, perhaps enough to cover increased rent if you need a larger place. Finally, I just have to throw this out there, but you are worried about financially supporting your woman? From the dawn of civilization until about 40 years ago (and in some places to this day), that was par for the course. Its part of your duties as a man to do this if necessary. If she does contribute financially, then that would be one of the few times the effects of the feminist movement will ever benefit you, but you shouldnt count on that. If it really bothers you that much, you should talk to her about her finances – how often does you have money coming in, how much, does she ever go into debt just covering day to day expenses. If you see this as a barrier to your relationship moving forward (and you tell her this), you may even be able to convince her to take a part time job to get her to subsidize her other pursuits – in her profession, this is probably quite common.
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Don’t Call Me Baby
What You Won’t Do for Love
When the Shoe Drops
I Don’t Love You Anymore
He Never Says I’m Pretty
The Benevolent Dictator
Mixing Friends and Lovers
OK, so maybe she cant fully support herself, she relies on her parents to pay her rent or equivalent. I think Paul hit the nail on the head that perhaps due to her profession, this is as good as it’ll ever get. But here’s the thing – she can get by at some level right now, largely due to her parents. I imagine this would continue for the foreseeable future. So what’s your concern? Surely you dont want to leech off her, so I dont think thats it. Are you worried about her ability to contribute financially should you two get married? Right now, you are both paying utilities and expenses. You are also paying for your place. If you two get married or move in together, you will still pay for your place, or if you have to upgrade, you will. However, you will only pay for one set of utilities, and although those might be a little more than you are paying now, I would imagine that what you save over what you are both paying for utilities combined would help quite a bit, perhaps enough to cover increased rent if you need a larger place. Finally, I just have to throw this out there, but you are worried about financially supporting your woman? From the dawn of civilization until about 40 years ago (and in some places to this day), that was par for the course. Its part of your duties as a man to do this if necessary. If she does contribute financially, then that would be one of the few times the effects of the feminist movement will ever benefit you, but you shouldnt count on that. If it really bothers you that much, you should talk to her about her finances – how often does you have money coming in, how much, does she ever go into debt just covering day to day expenses. If you see this as a barrier to your relationship moving forward (and you tell her this), you may even be able to convince her to take a part time job to get her to subsidize her other pursuits – in her profession, this is probably quite common.
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