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This makes me curious about if what we are attracted to or our respective “type” changes if we make external alterations in our appearance. Does who we find attractive or sexy change as our bodies or looks change? Or do we make a conscious choice to pursue and date people who are more objectively attractive because we think we should?

I’m less concerned with the difference in your respective looks and more concerned with the age difference. These younger guys that pursue older women always strike me as clueless or up to no good. Or looking for a Mommy. I can’t help but feel like this guy just wants his chance to sleep with the “older, more experienced woman.” Online dating sites are full of those guys. They’re the ones that always say “age is just a number” or some other tired cliché. My feeling is, 95% of the time, if a younger man pursues a woman much older than him, it’s for the sex. And he doesn’t necessarily have to be attracted to that woman, either. He just wants the experience, the story to tell. It’s not odd that a guy would make a ton of effort or show great interest even though he’s just looking for sex. Many men, of all ages, will invest a lot of time just for the sex. They’re the same guys who bail after 2 or 3 dates, or who suddenly become less responsive and attentive after you do have sex.

He said to me, “Did you feel that? I felt it.”