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My extremely loose diagnosis now would be simply that these people don’t see you as high-value enough to want to initiate with you yet. Brad Pitt doesn’t have to call around asking for movies he can be in, you know? So usually this is just an issue of value.
But that doesn’t help you much in practical terms, does it? lol the good news is there are fixes that can give you an advantage. Like if your social circle sees you as low value, it might be better to go out solo or make new friends because then you aren’t constantly fighting the label of “our lame little buddy we let hang with us if he puts in the effort to chase us down”. On the flip side if your buddies all think you’re awesome and it’s just new people you meet that you have to chase around, then it’s likely a disconnect between how you act with your close friends VS new people which is usually an issue of entitlement and being stifled etc and that comes with its own set of shit to diagnose and worth through (like figuring out your runny nose is just a symptom of a bigger problem like the flu and then treating the flu instead of the runny nose).
I’ll go into more when you answer the questions in this comment so I can narrow it down some more. :)
Hang in there! Glad you’re still trying. For what it’s worth this (January-April) is the toughest time of year to pick up because its colder out so less girls go out, as a result there’s more male competition and fighting over the few available girls, and most girls got themselves a boyfriend for the winter so they have someone to take home for Xmas and kiss on NYE and be solidly in a relationship for valentine’s day and take home for Easter etc etc. like its a few months of “you’d better have a boyfriend and not fuck it up or you’re in for lonely/awkward holidays full of relatives asking why you’re still single etc” for girls along with a bunch of cold lonely depressing winter nights not cuddled up to a boyfriend. It can be really tough to even find “single” girls right now.
Slut Shamed and Dumped Because of a Past Hookup
I Choose to Love Myself More Than I Love My Man
5 Reasons to Be with A Man Who Loves Your More
When A Relationship is Almost Right But Not Quite
The In and Out Man: Why Your Ex Man Keeps Coming Back
The Benefits of Settling Down With A Reformed Playboy
Is Marriage Really Hard? Married Folks Speak Out
How to Show Him You’ve Changed & Deserve a Second Chance
5 Moments That Shape a Woman’s Love Life
My extremely loose diagnosis now would be simply that these people don’t see you as high-value enough to want to initiate with you yet. Brad Pitt doesn’t have to call around asking for movies he can be in, you know? So usually this is just an issue of value.
But that doesn’t help you much in practical terms, does it? lol the good news is there are fixes that can give you an advantage. Like if your social circle sees you as low value, it might be better to go out solo or make new friends because then you aren’t constantly fighting the label of “our lame little buddy we let hang with us if he puts in the effort to chase us down”. On the flip side if your buddies all think you’re awesome and it’s just new people you meet that you have to chase around, then it’s likely a disconnect between how you act with your close friends VS new people which is usually an issue of entitlement and being stifled etc and that comes with its own set of shit to diagnose and worth through (like figuring out your runny nose is just a symptom of a bigger problem like the flu and then treating the flu instead of the runny nose).
I’ll go into more when you answer the questions in this comment so I can narrow it down some more. :)
Hang in there! Glad you’re still trying. For what it’s worth this (January-April) is the toughest time of year to pick up because its colder out so less girls go out, as a result there’s more male competition and fighting over the few available girls, and most girls got themselves a boyfriend for the winter so they have someone to take home for Xmas and kiss on NYE and be solidly in a relationship for valentine’s day and take home for Easter etc etc. like its a few months of “you’d better have a boyfriend and not fuck it up or you’re in for lonely/awkward holidays full of relatives asking why you’re still single etc” for girls along with a bunch of cold lonely depressing winter nights not cuddled up to a boyfriend. It can be really tough to even find “single” girls right now.